We are born into this world. When we enter to the world everything is new. Whatever we saw makes us happy. We also cry in the beginning when we have a challenge that we have not faced before. And after some period we begin to learn to handle the challenges in life. We are not crying for small things. Then our life goes on.
Years pass by. For some who face challenges in life in the beginning itself, he began to set a goal and his mind is focused on to achieve it. He dedicates everything and with hard work he achieves it. When you start growing. That stage youth is the biggest stage. Whatever you read will sit in your mind. Whatever you think at those years will shape your life. Your brain is at the fastest growing stage at this age so is your body. If you try to enjoy your life at that stage, then your life will be miserable.
This is a stage where Whatever you do can be made happen. New Ideas will start popping out. The stage where you can take risk. So what is being said to you at this age will have an impact on you. There is a famous proverb. "If you did not bend on age 5 you can’t bend at age 50." So understand this and start doing activities which will improve your knowledge and doing things which will shape your life.
1. Go for a stroll in Beach.
2. Watch a live concert.
3. Hang out with friends.
4. Attend a party.
5. Go to spa and have a massage.
6. Do meditation.
7. Watch a movie.
8. Go to place where you have not visited before in your local area.
9. Sleep like a child.
10. Go on a date.
11. Go to your nearby shopping mall and hangout.
12. Head to a parlor and have facial or try a different haircut.
13. Cook your favorite meal.
14. Invite your friends for a party in your house.
15. Take a vacation and travel to different places.
16. Do House cleaning. Clean the parts of house which has not been done for a long time.
17. Play indoor games like tennis or squash.
18. Go on with a blind date.
19. Go to a library and read books.
20. Join dance classes and start dancing.
21. Go shopping alone or with friends..
22. Trim your garden..
23. Visit an aquarium and buy some fishes and have a fish tank in your house.
24. Head for swimming pool and have a nice bath.
25. Play Snooker with your friends.
26. Go to Pub.
27. Go to gym and have a good workout.
28. Hang on with your relatives.
29. Organize a party or events for your friends.
30. Attend music or guitar classes.
31. Do some charity work.
32. Take free coaching classes for poor children.
33. Join evening college and study.
34. Go visit a friend you have not met for a long time.
35. Take your vehicle and go for a marine ride or ride to some long distance.
36. Go for a splendid dinner in a roof top restaurant with friends or relatives or alone.
37. Rent some DVD movies and watch it at home with popcorn's.
38. Check your financial's thoroughly and organize it.
39. Redecorate your home.
40. Hangout with your school mates or collage mates
41. Attend a Wedding.
42. Give your neighbour a surprise visit with a gift. Just check whether he is there before going.
43. Play with neighbours children and buy them a treat.
44. Go for a ship cruise.
45. Play Xbox or playstation or pc games.
46. Switch on the radio station and hear songs.
47. Call a friend and talk to him over phone.
48. Collect unwanted items and start an yard sale.
49. Browse through the internet.
50. Attend a birthday party or buy some greetings and send it for your friends.
51. Learn about how to invest in stocks and shares.
52. Organize your planner for next month.
53. Visit your dentist and check your teeth.
54. Attend yard sale or super saver shoppings.
55. Try to learn a new language and start practising it.
56. visit a baseball or cricket match stadium near you.
57. Start an online selling on ebays.
58. Close your eyes and just relax.
59. Learn karate or judo to protect yourself.
60. Visit temple or church or your reigious places.
61. Go Kart racing
62. Go to Discos.
63. Find yourself a nice girl friend.
64. Go walking or jogging.
65. Go to museum near you and know about historic culture.
66. Do online chatting.
67. Learn Parachuting
68. Make new friends.
69. Work more on to improve your career options.
70. Write a novel.
71. Visit a sport's club.
72. Buy gifts for your dear ones.
73. Help your neighbors by doing good deeds they ask.
74. Do Blogging. Write blog articles.
75. Create some handicraft goods.
76. Get a new part time job.
77. Do Yoga.
78. Plan your tax filings and how to save more.
79. Buy a new gadget and understand how to use it.
80. Go for a road trip with friends.
81. Go fishing
82. Try to fix plumbing repairs yourself.
83. Go Camping
84. Go to Bowling allay and do bowling.
85. Go to an ice cream shop and give yourself a treat.
86. Attend Good Seminar.
87. Visit a political rally.
88. Create a facebook account if you don't have one and grow your fans network.
89. Take your camera and go photo shooting.
90. Go for Mountain Trekking.
91. Take a vacation on island and sunbathe.
92. Do Star gazing in night.
93. Watch TV Serials.
94. Learn how to bake a cake.
95. Try Scuba diving
96. Wash your car clean.
97. Visit a forest and see ferocious animals.
98. Sit in your doorstep and visit different type of people and their cultures.
99. Open your mailbox and delete unwanted mails.
100. Why dont you give the 100th item not in the list.
Many of us suffer from health related issues. We also pity on others that they are suffering so much with health problems. Even i have felt that some of us are fighting with health hazards so much that they cant spend normal life as others do. But understand one thing. What can you do to prevent it, It is fate. They are facing it today, you may face it tomorrow. There is no use worrying about it and wasting your health thinking about it. You must proceed on life. Yes they are suffering,
But it is how life goes and pitying them and worrying will not help them instead it will make your mind towards negative thinking impacting you only. So go on in your life. Don't make a full stop and stop there. If you are suffering, the same is for you move on. it is not going to stop with this. These are passing clouds
We are all chasing after desires in our lives. For our desires to fulfill, we are coming to know that money only will help us to achieve these desires. These desires may be want or need. When we are at young age we do not know how to differentiate between want and need. A need is a one which is required for us to survive. A want is a wish which your mind converts to a need when you began to think about it often.
Even if we are reading this in articles or experience, we still do not follow this. The reason being that at that age we have no big experience in life, so everything we see in others and we don’t have it, we desire to have it. Once we have what we desired, are we still happy. Yes but at some time only. After some time another one is placed in our mind. Our Life goes on like this till we get matured and you don’t have strength in your body. At this stage you began to know what life is by all your experiences. You began to know this is temporary only. So if you start knowing difference between your need and want, Happiness will be there in your life.
A new maturity will come over you. But this is not an easy task. At least try to know the difference and think before making a decision whether this is a need or want. Thing whether is this as important that it is going to change your life. Instead of that you constantly think that you want it then, your mind converts a want to a need. So give a break for some time and then think whether it is a need or want when your mind is calm.
Aging is the thing which most of us fear and try to run away from it. First of all Aging is a natural one, you cannot avoid it. Accept the fact and live your life. Many people when aged begin to worry and make their life miserable. What is the main reason? There is a 1 letter word which has different meaning for different reason. Nobody would have lived without thinking it. It is Worry.
What is the main worry for aging people?
They worry about their health
Aged people become to sense they are aged and begin to worry that their health will deteriorate away. It is not the case always. If it happens for somebody, it is not necessary to happen to you also. by worrying about it you are attracting the problem to come nearer to you. Remember what you think make what you are. If you keep on think your health will deteriorate away, your body will also will feel to the thinking and go by its way. First understand that there are many peoples in the world who are having health problems even in childhood days. Think about them. Even if you are facing health problems, think about them. See how small children’s are trying to fight AIDS. Do you have that huge problem? You are grown up and would have faced challenges. But look at these children, they don’t know life and don’t even know how to overcome it. So why are you afraid to fight it when a small girl with cancer is fighting for life to come out of it. So please don’t tell me your problem is bigger than others. For everyone their problem is big until they come out of the box and see others problem.
Worry about death and going to die soon
If you worry about death going to kill you then you are killing yourself many more time than the death. Death is going to come in everybody life. You are worrying about it a thousand times than it is going to happen once. See you have killed yourselves the agony of thousand times of what it will be.
Worry about their children
Your children’s have grown up. They also are living in this world for some time. They would also have faced many challenges. If you are going to tell worry about each problem of them as yours then you are making your life and their lives miserable. Tell them on how to face it, because worrying will not help anybody’s problem whereas facing to overcome challenges will make them strong and will be helpful in their life
Worrying about what will happen to your spouse when you pass away.
The world is not going to stop when a person die. Daily many people die but when the people dearer to us passes away we are most affected. Death is a natural event and every natural event will have its natural course of action. Have faith in god and think that he has brought each one to the world and this too will takes its natural course and reflect good.
I can give you lot of difference between Youth and aged
1. Youth is the time where you have the strength and energy to enjoy life but you dont have the money in your pockets whereas when you are aged you have money in your pockets but do not have the intrest to do that.
2. Youth is the time where you don’t have to time to spend with children’s whereas when you are aged you wait for your grand children’s visit especially at holidays.
3. Youth is the time where your hormones are in full swing and your body works in perfect harmony and executes all your orders whereas when you are aged your hormones are less which leads to less interest and your body begins to stop helping you showing that it is also tired.
4. Youth is the time where you begin to love somebody to make as life partner whereas when you are aged you begin to understand and respect her more.
5.Youth is the time where you take risks to try out many things boldly as You would not have the experience to know the consequences whereas when you are aged you would hesitate to risks because your mind is filled with full of experiences which hesitates to do because of some unseen consequences.
6. Youth is the time where you don’t have time to speak to parents whereas when you are aged your children don’t have time to speak with you.
7. Youth is the time where you don’t have the time to worry whereas when you are aged you don’t have time other than worries
8. Youth is the time where you don’t know about life whereas you begin to understand life when you are aged
9. Youth is the age of courage to face anything in life and handle it whereas you begin to lose courage when you grow old.
10. Youth is the age where you don’t take care of anybody whereas aged is the time where you expect others help
I was watching shows in TV.There are many mentally challenged peoples who live in the world and trying to come up in life. This show is about them telling their bottlenecks in life. In that a person was telling a situation which he feels laughing. This person was mentally and physically challenged. He came to the hospital with his mother. There was an old man sitting opposite to him and seeing this boy (person telling this story), by sensing this boys behavior, the old man began to sense that this boy is not a normal boy.
The boy’s mother left her seat to enquire about the doctor's availability. The old man who was sitting opposite to the boy came to this boy and sat next to him. He asked the boy whether this problem was from intermediate due to some accident or from his child birth. The boy told this story and told the audience. What would the old man going to do if he told him that it is from child birth or if it is from intermediate? Will it going to help this boy anyway. No. So the boy asked why people ask these silly questions and hurt other people.
People don’t realize that by asking these types of question will hurt the person opposite who is facing that kind of Problem.